Key Concept

In reading chapter 12, I identified with the misplaced conflict concept. I find that I have a tendency to get upset about little things, like the dishes not being done, garbage not taken out or being asked to run an errand for the husband. When I start getting frustrated with things that normally don't really bother me, I start arguments about the tiny things, when the issue really is that I am not feeling appreciated for my contributions to the household, or I need some encouragement or quality time with him. Instead of being direct, about my needs I get frustrated that my husband does not know my unspoken needs. This is not a good way to deal with conflict and becoming more aware of it has helped me be more direct about my needs and decided to not get annoy or frustrated over the small things.