I really struggled
with this question even after reading Chapter 1. While I do believe some have
more of a bend towards conflict, I cannot say that people seek it out. I cannot
make that statement mainly because I believe in not communicating an absolute.
In my experiences ,
I have found that there are three types of people. (Each one does have a grey
area) I believe that there are people who avoid conflict as a way of
"keeping the peace" or fear it, there are people who will meet
conflict head on, and those who's identity is wrapped up within having
conflicts.
In chapter 1, it is
said that conflict is inevitable, there for it is an aspect of environment then
an inborn trait, and how someone is taught to handle conflict is also a process
of the environment. Society has taught us that conflict happens. It happens on
the news, in politics, in families. It is a huge aspect of life.