What Did I Learn

I learned a lot from this class. I learned that sometimes in conflict, I can throw verbal daggers, and because I was made aware of it, I can change it. I also learned that conflict is something that is really good and it doesn't have to be a hugely emotional experience. Conflict can be something that is very positive. And having that view point actually has helped me embrace the conflicts that occur in disagreements in my marriage as well as trust that my husband has my best interest at heart. Being positive about conflict had made me more open to creative ideas on how to have a equally satisfying resolution. I have also learned that in a high emotional conflict, not to take offense to things said out of anger, but instead respond with "How is that constructive to this conversation?" And it sets a boundary, and I also don't respond back in kind. Saying something along those lines puts everyone on a level playing field, and also brings about an apology.

Because of the reading, I was able to put words and definitions to different conflict styles, and it has helped me better understand the conflicts styles within my personal relationships and how to interact with within those styles. It has also helped me work through changes within friendships and forgiveness. This class has given me a better understand of conflict and a desire to work through conflict in a very healthy and non-hurtful way.

I really enjoyed this class. THANKS!!!

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